{"id":161350,"date":"2026-05-25T18:46:38","date_gmt":"2026-05-26T01:46:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/?p=161350"},"modified":"2026-06-02T11:00:50","modified_gmt":"2026-06-02T18:00:50","slug":"the-land-of-the-free-an-appalling-new-study-finds-most-american-parents-confine-children-to-house-arrest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/?p=161350","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe land of the free\u201d? An appalling new study finds most American parents confine children to house arrest"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"post-title published title-X77sOw\" dir=\"auto\">\u201cThe land of the free\u201d? An appalling new study finds most American parents confine children to house arrest<\/h1>\n<p><strong>Mike Males, Principal Investigator, YouthFacts.org| May 2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<h6 class=\"subtitle subtitle-HEEcLo\" dir=\"auto\">Where are children and teenagers supposed to be? Not online. Not out in their communities. If they sat in a lotus in their rooms chanting ohm all day, legislators would ban that.<\/h6>\n<p>Generation Z is right \u2014 Americans, stop having kids. That issue is raised by the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/ifstudies.org\/\">Institute for Family Studies<\/a>\u00a0damning new report, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/ifstudies.org\/report-brief\/high-tech-low-play-the-life-of-american-children\">High Tech, Low Play: The Life of American Children<\/a>.\u201d It is inciting the usual moronic anti-youth media distortions divorced from what it really shows.<\/p>\n<p>The IFS\u2019s latest study follows its February 2026 survey of 24,000 parents of 40,000 children\/teens, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/ifstudies.org\/report-brief\/resilient-children-struggling-parents-mapping-american-parenting\">Resilient Children, Struggling Parents<\/a>.\u201d That initial report reached a revolutionary conclusion: parents who want to \u201craise their children to be independent, free-spirited\u201d and \u201cresilient\u201d must actively DEFY American \u201ccultural norms.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Great conclusion! The problem: American grownups, especially authorities,<em>\u00a0fear and hate \u201cindependent, free-spirited, resilient\u201d young people<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>So, what American \u201ccultural norms\u201d are preventing healthy, challenging youth from growing up? Two stand out.<\/p>\n<p><strong>House arrest. Social media bans.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The IFS reports \u2013 stunning indictments of American adulthood because they let the grownups speak for themselves \u2013 highlight the percentages of children\/youth whose parents\u00a0<em>do not allow them to walk, bike, or drive outside their homes, yards, and immediate neighborhoods<\/em>: 98% of 5-year-olds, 98% of 12-year-olds, 73% of 16-year-olds.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, very few parents allow grade-schoolers to<em>\u00a0leave their house or yard<\/em>\u00a0\u2013 and 44% similarly confine their\u00a0<em>12-year-olds<\/em>\u00a0to literal house arrest.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe the parents answering the IFS survey are grossly exaggerating to conform to social norms to \u201cact tough.\u201d But if the survey really reflects how repressive grownups have become, then those concerned for emerging generations must hope children and teens are sneaking out and bravely gaining experience with the larger world beyond their yards.<\/p>\n<p>America\u2019s natural laboratory shows\u00a0<em>what we do does not work<\/em>. American adults are monumentally messed up more than any other on earth.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wonder.cdc.gov\/mcd.html\">CDC<\/a>,<a href=\"https:\/\/cde.ucr.cjis.gov\/LATEST\/webapp\/#\/pages\/explorer\/crime\/crime-trend\">\u00a0FBI<\/a>, Census, and related statistics consistently show our 25-29-year-olds, 30-agers, 40-agers, and 50-agers \u2013 the grownups with supposedly developed brains and maturity, the controllers of wealth, families, institutions, politics, power \u2013 are exactly the ones setting horrific global records for wildly excessive drug and alcohol overdose, criminal behaviors, gun violence, domestic violence (including killing our own children), suicide, violent death, and political extremism.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, American authorities aren\u2019t about to tell us that. The IFS is gentle on the grownups. Its report only asked parents\u2019 (not kids\u2019) opinions about \u201ckids today.\u201d It never broached tough subjects like parental abuses, addictions, severe mental troubles, and violence \u2013 unlike the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/yrbs\/results\/index.html\">Centers for Disease Control\u2019s 2023 survey<\/a>\u00a0that found three-fourths of teens reported experiencing at least one of these serious grownup household abuses and adversities, half suffered 3 or more, and one-sixth suffered 5 or more in their homes.<\/p>\n<p>A huge part of our failure to solve basic social and health problems is authorities\u2019 constant search for powerless scapegoats to blame.<\/p>\n<p><strong>As grownups get worse, so does the scapegoating<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The ban on teens in public accompanies legislation to ban teens under age 16 (18 is next, then 21) from going online.<\/p>\n<p>The ban-teens-from-social-media lobbies fantasize that children and teens will miraculously give up their keyboards and screens (something their own elder generations didn\u2019t and don\u2019t do, spending dozens of hours a week staring at TVs and gabbing on phones) and pour out into the healthy, safe parks and playgrounds to frolic.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, right. You think the panic over teens being online is crazed (as this substack repeatedly documents)? Just look at the daily ragings against \u201cteen takeovers\u201d \u2013 which means any group of Black youth in public in which someone does something that would be perfectly tolerated if they were older adults. I\u2019ll be looking at what police statistics show about these \u201cteen takeovers\u201d and who\u2019s really causing crime in a later substack.<\/p>\n<p>No, the American grownups\u2019 unspoken ideal for middle-schoolers now, older teenagers soon, and young adults within a few years is no exploring, no unsupervised time, no expression, no independence, no socializing, just 24-7 adult and government surveillance by older generations whose failure to manage their own lives is the root cause of the youth problems they complain about.<\/p>\n<p>Demagogues fervently claiming to \u201cprotect children!\u201d demand their banishment from online experiences \u2013 which, complementing public life, are beneficial to growth and adaptation \u2013 because they\u00a0<em>might<\/em>\u00a0encounter a porn image or an insulting message or a remote predator contact\u00a0<em>on their screens<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the same mentality as the joint police\/politician\/media crusade to demand bans on all teens in public spaces because a few might cause trouble \u2013 a standard of collective guilt adults don\u2019t apply to ourselves (our higher crime, drug, and violence rates are\u00a0<em>individual<\/em>\u00a0problems).<\/p>\n<p>These repressions converge in the demand that children and teens be confined to the very families and established institutions proven to inflict\u00a0<em>by far<\/em>\u00a0the most abusive and dangerous\u00a0<em>real-life physical, personal endangerments<\/em>, like churches, schools, sports, youth organizations like Scouting, police custody, and, especially, families.<\/p>\n<p>The IFS\u2019s findings really argue for radically expanding youth access to varied settings. So, naturally, they\u2019re being grossly distorted by culture warriors to justify banning teens from everywhere. That\u2019s their real ideal.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe land of the free\u201d? An appalling new study finds most American parents confine children to house arrest Mike Males, Principal Investigator, YouthFacts.org| May 2026 Where are children and teenagers supposed to be? Not online. Not out in their communities. 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