{"id":161330,"date":"2026-04-23T13:57:19","date_gmt":"2026-04-23T20:57:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/?p=161330"},"modified":"2026-05-27T15:20:30","modified_gmt":"2026-05-27T22:20:30","slug":"everything-were-told-about-teenage-suicide-and-bullying-is-wrong-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/?p=161330","title":{"rendered":"Our top health agency\u2019s surveys found what really makes teenagers depressed. Authorities&#8217; deafening silence said: no one cares"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 class=\"post-title published title-X77sOw\" dir=\"auto\">Our top health agency\u2019s surveys found what really makes teenagers depressed. Authorities&#8217; deafening silence said: no one cares<\/h1>\n<p><strong>Mike Males, Principal Investigator, YouthFacts.org| April 2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<h6 class=\"subtitle subtitle-HEEcLo\" dir=\"auto\">A brief history of how the Centers for Disease Control got the memo: No more honest science; ignore real troubles in teens\u2019 lives; just join the stampede to blame \u201csocial media.\u201d<\/h6>\n<p>What a difference a few years makes in the lunatic crusade against teenagers and social media. The evolution of today\u2019s panic is disgraceful. Let me recount it.<\/p>\n<p>Back in the halcyon long-ago yore of 2021, the CDC\u2019s biannual\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/yrbs\/results\/index.html\">Youth Risk Behavior Survey<\/a>\u00a0asked its thousands of 13-18-year-old subjects\u00a0<em>for the first time<\/em>\u00a0about parents\u2019 emotional and violent abuses.<\/p>\n<p>Gee, could getting beaten, kicked, degraded, etc., by grownups in their homes (the CDC was too polite to add shot, stabbed, and raped) have\u00a0<em>anything to do<\/em>\u00a0with the teenage \u201cmental health crisis\u201d experts were proclaiming? Ya think?<\/p>\n<p>The<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/yrbs\/results\/2021-yrbs-results.html\">\u00a0results<\/a>, hardly surprising, were staggering. Teens reported powerful connections between parental abuses and teenagers\u2019 poor mental health, suicide attempts, self-harm, and serious risks that dwarfed all other factors combined.<\/p>\n<p>The more honest CDC led off its 2021 survey\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/media\/releases\/2022\/p0331-youth-mental-health-covid-19.html\">press release<\/a>\u00a0(now\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/archive.cdc.gov\/#\/details?url=https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/media\/releases\/2022\/p0331-youth-mental-health-covid-19.html\">archived<\/a>\u00a0and harder to find) with the following:<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"header-anchor-post\">New CDC analyses, published today, shine additional light on the mental health of U.S. high school students\u2026 including a disproportionate level of threats that some students experienced\u2026<\/h4>\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-alignItems-center pc-position-absolute pc-reset header-anchor-parent\">\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-contents pc-reset pubTheme-yiXxQA\">\n<div id=\"\u00a7new-cdc-analyses-published-today-shine-additional-light-on-the-mental-health-of-us-high-school-students-including-a-disproportionate-level-of-threats-that-some-students-experienced\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset header-anchor offset-top\"><\/div>\n<p><button class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft iconButton-mq_Et5 iconButtonBase-dJGHgN buttonBase-GK1x3M buttonStyle-r7yGCK size_sm-G3LciD priority_secondary-S63h9o\" tabindex=\"0\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/mikemales.substack.com\/i\/194103873\/new-cdc-analyses-published-today-shine-additional-light-on-the-mental-health-of-us-high-school-students-including-a-disproportionate-level-of-threats-that-some-students-experienced\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h4 class=\"header-anchor-post\">\u00b7 More than half (55%) reported they experienced emotional abuse by a parent or other adult in the home, including swearing at, insulting, or putting down the student.<\/h4>\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-alignItems-center pc-position-absolute pc-reset header-anchor-parent\">\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-contents pc-reset pubTheme-yiXxQA\">\n<div id=\"\u00a7more-than-half-55-reported-they-experienced-emotional-abuse-by-a-parent-or-other-adult-in-the-home-including-swearing-at-insulting-or-putting-down-the-student\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset header-anchor offset-top\"><\/div>\n<p><button class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft iconButton-mq_Et5 iconButtonBase-dJGHgN buttonBase-GK1x3M buttonStyle-r7yGCK size_sm-G3LciD priority_secondary-S63h9o\" tabindex=\"0\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/mikemales.substack.com\/i\/194103873\/more-than-half-55-reported-they-experienced-emotional-abuse-by-a-parent-or-other-adult-in-the-home-including-swearing-at-insulting-or-putting-down-the-student\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h4 class=\"header-anchor-post\">\u00b7 11% experienced physical abuse by a parent or other adult in the home, including hitting, beating, kicking, or physically hurting the student.<\/h4>\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-alignItems-center pc-position-absolute pc-reset header-anchor-parent\">\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-contents pc-reset pubTheme-yiXxQA\">\n<div id=\"\u00a711-experienced-physical-abuse-by-a-parent-or-other-adult-in-the-home-including-hitting-beating-kicking-or-physically-hurting-the-student\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset header-anchor offset-top\"><\/div>\n<p><button class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft iconButton-mq_Et5 iconButtonBase-dJGHgN buttonBase-GK1x3M buttonStyle-r7yGCK size_sm-G3LciD priority_secondary-S63h9o\" tabindex=\"0\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/mikemales.substack.com\/i\/194103873\/11-experienced-physical-abuse-by-a-parent-or-other-adult-in-the-home-including-hitting-beating-kicking-or-physically-hurting-the-student\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h4 class=\"header-anchor-post\">\u2026Lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth and female youth reported greater levels of poor mental health; emotional abuse by a parent or caregiver; and having attempted suicide than their counterparts.<\/h4>\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-alignItems-center pc-position-absolute pc-reset header-anchor-parent\">\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-contents pc-reset pubTheme-yiXxQA\">\n<div id=\"\u00a7lesbian-gay-and-bisexual-youth-and-female-youth-reported-greater-levels-of-poor-mental-health-emotional-abuse-by-a-parent-or-caregiver-and-having-attempted-suicide-than-their-counterparts\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset header-anchor offset-top\"><\/div>\n<p><button class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft iconButton-mq_Et5 iconButtonBase-dJGHgN buttonBase-GK1x3M buttonStyle-r7yGCK size_sm-G3LciD priority_secondary-S63h9o\" tabindex=\"0\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/mikemales.substack.com\/i\/194103873\/lesbian-gay-and-bisexual-youth-and-female-youth-reported-greater-levels-of-poor-mental-health-emotional-abuse-by-a-parent-or-caregiver-and-having-attempted-suicide-than-their-counterparts\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to believe, but just 5 years ago, our nation\u2019s leading health agency made no mention of social media, even though its survey asked about screen use.<\/p>\n<p>Bad CDC. Since then, authorities\u2019 silence on these issues make it clear the CDC\u2019s statement, however scientific, was out of step. Science was not what authorities and politicians wanted. Spare us about why teenagers are<em>\u00a0really<\/em>\u00a0depressed.<\/p>\n<p>I wasn\u2019t invited to high level meetings. But authorities had to be envying the rocketing popularity of psychologists like Jonathan Haidt and Jean Twenge, whose books, op-eds, and avalanche of worshipful press splashes simply blamed social media and smartphones for \u201crewiring\u201d and \u201cdestroying\u201d young people while never mentioning the rough stuff teens actually endure in their homes.<\/p>\n<p>Some were not yet on message. Media and political interests back then didn\u2019t completely ignore the CDC\u2019s emphasis on parental abuses. One-time squibs in the\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2022\/03\/31\/health\/covid-mental-health-teens.html\">New York Times<\/a><\/em>,\u00a0<em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/news\/us-news\/not-surprising-see-sad-experts-alarmed-large-number-teens-experiencing-rcna22377\">NBC News<\/a><\/em>\u00a0and a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ksby.com\/news\/national\/a-cry-for-help-new-cdc-data-shows-many-teens-have-been-emotionally-abused-by-parents\">few outlets<\/a>\u00a0briefly lamented that teens\u2019 high rates of being abused might be a problem. You\u2019ll never see even whispers in today\u2019s lockstep panic.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2023: Authorities\u2019 silence should have been their first clue<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know whether admirably brave scientists inside the CDC had insisted on bringing the issue of parental abuses and troubles to the forefront of the teen mental health debate where it belonged, or if the CDC genuinely failed to perceive how strongly health, politicians, and media would prefer silence on unpopular complications.<\/p>\n<p>In any case, the CDC\u00a0<em>expanded<\/em>\u00a0questions on its 2023 survey to include parents\u2019 abuses and \u201cadverse\u201d behaviors like parents\u2019 drug\/alcohol abuse, severe mental troubles, jailing, and household violence. Those questions were asked of older teens and younger ones alike.<\/p>\n<p>These additional questions yielded even more staggering results. In 2023, 62% of teens (70% of girls, 54% of boys) reported histories of violent\/emotional abuses by parents and household adults, up from 55% (62% of girls, 47% of boys) in 2021.<\/p>\n<p>Again, as in 2021, abused teens from troubled families reported frequently poor mental health, suicide attempts, self-harm, and other risks many times more than non-abused teens. For example, having a parent with severe mental health problems boosted the odds of poor mental health among teens by 2.3 times (2.4 times for ages under 16), self-harm by 3.2 times (3.3 times for under-16s), and suicide attempts by 4.1 times (5.1 times).<\/p>\n<p>The CDC\u2019s definitive findings were incredibly useful in designing policy to address family health \u2014 but incredibly threatening to authorities\u2019 political needs.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2024: The CDC gets the memo<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Finally catching the drift, the CDC led off its 2024 press publicity on its survey results with its own\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/mmwr\/volumes\/73\/su\/su7304a3.htm\">advance report<\/a>\u00a0narrowly fixated on popular issues: \u201cFrequent Social Media Use and Experiences with Bullying Victimization, Persistent Feelings of Sadness or Hopelessness, and Suicide Risk Among High School Students.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It was the reverse of 2021. No mention of parental abuses, anywhere. Teen problems were all just social media and bullying peers.<\/p>\n<p>That report was utter crap. Its own Table 4 (to anyone who scrutinized it) showed \u201cfrequent social media use\u201d and school and cyber bullying \u2013 even when singled out as the ONLY things in teenagers\u2019 lives \u2013 presented only trivial threats to teens\u2019 mental health and no effect at all on teens\u2019 suicide risk.<\/p>\n<p>No matter. The CDC\u2019s initial report received loving media and political forum coverage, as did Surgeon General Vivek Murthy\u2019s equally narrow, hugely-quoted \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hhs.gov\/surgeongeneral\/reports-and-publications\/youth-mental-health\/social-media\/index.html\">Social Media and Youth Mental Health<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>A sliver of scientific honor did survive. Belatedly, in October 2024, the CDC released the full 2023 survey data set for independent analysis along with a more analytical,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/mmwr\/volumes\/73\/su\/su7304a5.htm?s_cid=su7304a5_w\">disturbing report<\/a>: \u201cAdverse Childhood Experiences and Health Conditions and Risk Behaviors Among High School Students.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Unlike its worthless initial media-friendly report, the CDC\u2019s second report (buried in its inhouse journal) did find big things \u2013 ones I repeatedly cite because no one else will:<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"header-anchor-post\">\u00b7 Of the known factors driving teenagers\u2019 problems, parental abuses\/adversities were associated with two-thirds of teens\u2019 poor mental health, 84% of teens\u2019 opiate abuse, and 89% of teens\u2019 suicide attempts.<\/h4>\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-flex pc-alignItems-center pc-position-absolute pc-reset header-anchor-parent\">\n<div class=\"pencraft pc-display-contents pc-reset pubTheme-yiXxQA\">\n<div id=\"\u00a7of-the-known-factors-driving-teenagers-problems-parental-abusesadversities-were-associated-with-two-thirds-of-teens-poor-mental-health-84-of-teens-opiate-abuse-and-89-of-teens-suicide-attempts\" class=\"pencraft pc-reset header-anchor offset-top\"><\/div>\n<p><button class=\"pencraft pc-reset pencraft iconButton-mq_Et5 iconButtonBase-dJGHgN buttonBase-GK1x3M buttonStyle-r7yGCK size_sm-G3LciD priority_secondary-S63h9o\" tabindex=\"0\" type=\"button\" aria-label=\"Link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/mikemales.substack.com\/i\/194103873\/of-the-known-factors-driving-teenagers-problems-parental-abusesadversities-were-associated-with-two-thirds-of-teens-poor-mental-health-84-of-teens-opiate-abuse-and-89-of-teens-suicide-attempts\"><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>True to its duty as the nation\u2019s top health agency, the CDC had identified, albeit obscurely, the big reason why 30% of teens reported frequent unhappiness and some abused drugs and\/or attempted suicide. Murthy also issued a lesser-noticed follow-up\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hhs.gov\/surgeongeneral\/reports-and-publications\/parents\/index.html\">report<\/a>\u00a0on \u201cparents under pressure\u201d that did mention abuse affecting children and teens\u2026 ONCE, in a list, in 35 pages.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2025: Message received<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The CDC\u2019s new\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/yrbs\/questionnaires\/index.html\">2025 Youth Risk Behavior Survey<\/a>\u00a0eliminated all of the 2023 survey\u2019s questions on parents\u2019 and household adults\u2019 drug\/alcohol abuse, mental illness, jailing, and household violence. It did retain 2 questions on parents\u2019 emotional and violent abuses, confined to its National High School survey and only older teens.<\/p>\n<p>That is, at a time of national furor over the teenage \u201cmental health crisis,\u201d the CDC\u00a0<em>eliminated\u00a0<\/em>most questions on parent-inflicted troubles its own analysis powerfully associated with teens\u2019 poor mental health \u2014 and eliminated all such questions for younger teens.<\/p>\n<p>All authorities, politicians, and commentators want to hear about is social media social media social media. Even here, an irony: Teens in abusive, troubled families average\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mikemales.substack.com\/p\/heres-how-our-leading-health-survey\">2 more hours a day<\/a>\u00a0using social media than teens in healthy families. Surely, big powers who are so frantic to reduce teens\u2019 social media use might mention that reducing parental abuses and family troubles is one key (haha, this grim essay needed some levity).<\/p>\n<p><strong>My dismal prophecy, happy if proven wrong<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Later this summer, I predict, the CDC will release its 2025 Youth Behavior Risk Survey (YRBS) results. The CDC\u2019s press summary, as in 2023, will sensationally blame social media and peer bullying for teens\u2019 mental health problems, especially if these problems increase. Or, if they decrease, the CDC will credit smartphone and state social media bans. No mention will be made of parental abuse findings.<\/p>\n<p>Officials and media will uncritically cheer.<\/p>\n<p>A few months later, in the fall, the CDC will post the raw 2025 survey data set. It will show that, as in 2021 and 2023, parents\u2019 emotional and violent abuses are by far the largest contributors to teens\u2019 poor mental health, and that no other factors amount to doodley-squat.<\/p>\n<p>No one important will care.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s because this panic is not about teenagers, not about teens\u2019 mental health, not about the well-being of children. It is about increasingly troubled and irresponsible older generations feeling good about ourselves, abetted by greedy political and media powers taking advantage of our irresponsibility to grab even more power.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Our top health agency\u2019s surveys found what really makes teenagers depressed. Authorities&#8217; deafening silence said: no one cares Mike Males, Principal Investigator, YouthFacts.org| April 2026 A brief history of how the Centers for Disease Control got the memo: No more honest science; ignore real troubles in teens\u2019 lives; just join the stampede to blame \u201csocial [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-161330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=161330"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161330\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":161334,"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/161330\/revisions\/161334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=161330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=161330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=161330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}