{"id":161078,"date":"2024-03-28T19:29:40","date_gmt":"2024-03-29T02:29:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/?p=161078"},"modified":"2024-03-28T19:57:13","modified_gmt":"2024-03-29T02:57:13","slug":"quiet-on-set-how-adults-fail-to-protect-children-from-abuse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youthfacts.org\/?p=161078","title":{"rendered":"Quiet on Set: How Adults Fail To Protect Children From Abuse"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Quiet on Set: How Adults Fail To Protect Children From Abuse<\/h1>\n<p><strong>Milo Santamaria | March 2024<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After the release of the shocking documentary <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV, <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a 4 hour expos\u00e9 on the abuse that took place on Nickelodeon sets, viewers have taken to the internet criticizing parents and other adults on set for failing to protect children from abuse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many are asking:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cHow could they leave their children alone with them?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhy didn\u2019t they stand up to the producers?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or\u00a0 \u201cWhy didn\u2019t they call the police?\u201d <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Viewers who grew up watching Nickelodeon feel betrayed after finding out that their favorite actors were being exploited and groomed behind the scenes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, these feelings of betrayal are not new to survivors of abuse, who face immense obstacles and backlash for coming forward. Despite recent movements such as #metoo which have made conversations on abuse and workplace mistreatment much more mainstream, our culture still has a tendency to brush accusations of abuse under the rug.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Several former child actors have come forward about their experiences only to be dismissed and met with ridicule. Stars like Britney Spears, and Amanda Bynes have constantly been criticized by the media, despite their attempts to share their experiences of abuse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Children are also especially dismissed by adults when they speak out against abuse. When former child actor Drake Bell revealed he had been sexually assaulted by his voice coach, several actors and TV executives wrote letters defending his abuser saying Bell must have done something to \u201ctempt\u201d or \u201cprovoke\u201d the man who assaulted him.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Years later, Bell was also accused of inappropriate conduct with a minor and the young girl who came forward about the sexual assault she experienced was dismissed because she was only a teenager.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the lawyers on the case stated \u201cA grown man does not engage in inappropriate text messages to a teenager. There\u2019s a reason why a 14 or 15 year old does not have the right to drive, does not have the right to vote, does not have the right to serve in the armed forces. They don\u2019t have the emotional or mental maturity to properly gauge their conduct.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This case shows that the law reflects our skewed perceptions of teenagers. Children and teens who come forward with their experiences of mistreatment and abuse are often dismissed for not being \u201cemotionally mature\u201d enough to understand what was done to them. Their abusers are also rarely held accountable despite being \u201cemotionally mature\u201d enough to understand the harm they have caused.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This concept of emotional maturity is often used to deny child actors agency over their finances. Parents and managing teams often take advantage and financially abuse child stars. Many child actors are also the breadwinners for their families, which puts additional pressure on them to accept mistreatment in order to continue working in Hollywood. As Senior Research Fellow Dr. Mike Males argues, \u201cNo one has a good solution when &#8220;protecting kids&#8221; collides with profits.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Furthermore,<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Quiet on Set<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> reveals why abuse is so prevalent in all aspects of our society, not just in Hollywood. As Journalist Scaachi Koul stated in the documentary, \u201cThe person at the top sets the tone for the entire production. If you run a show dealing overwhelmingly with children, then you are responsible for creating an environment where those kids feel beyond comfortable to tell you they\u2019re not comfortable. It needs to be so safe that your most vulnerable person on set is able to say to you, the most powerful person there, &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to do this.\u201d\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiet on Set <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">shows that our society is not a safe place for survivors of abuse and exploitation to come forward. Parents that tried to defend their children were pushed out of Hollywood, leaving their children even more vulnerable to harm.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nickelodeon executives such as Dan Schneider, created extremely abusive environments that pushed out anyone who chose not to conform or enable abuse. Many parents tried to be agreeable to protect their children\u2019s careers, often at the expense of their children\u2019s wellbeing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiet on Set shows that capitalism makes us extremely isolated and vulnerable to abuse. Living under capitalism often makes us feel replaceable and inadequate, which makes it much harder to stand up for ourselves out of fear of being excluded and replaced. It\u2019s also much harder to rely on people around you for support when you are told they are your \u201ccompetition.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hierarchical structures make us afraid of being disobedient and disagreeable but <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiet on Set<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> reveals that our silence will not protect us. It only upholds the status quo of abuse and exploitation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>References\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M. Robertson (Executive Producer). (March 17-18, 2024). <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0[TV series]. 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